Horoscope

Positive Traits	Symbol and Dates	Negative Traits
IMAGINATION AFFECTION INSIGHT CARING TENACITY CAUTION	The Crab Jun. 21 to Jul. 21	AVARICE POSSESSIVENESS IRRITABILITY MOODINESS HYPERSENSITIVITY DESPONDENCY
Excerpt From "The New Astrology©" by Suzanne White
Emotion is the pitfall of Cancer people. As changeable as their ruler, the Moon, these subjects may shift in minutes from stable, normal, "happy" individuals into victims of deep navy blue feelings of gloom and doom. There's a quality of charming despair in Cancerian moodiness which can not only break hearts, but can sometimes actually win them. Cancers make fabulous partners for home-loving people. The Cancer's nest is where he feels safest and at his most secure. As security is the main preoccupation of most Cancers, a good home with comfy furnishings, a few kids and dogs and a built-in wall safe is about the best thing that can happen to them. In this atmosphere of cushions and curtains Cancer thrives. For the Cancer subject, home is love is home is love, etc. Cancers are good at making money; they hold executive positions and assume responsibilities with aplomb. You will rarely find a poor-but-happy Cancer. Cancerians very seldom decide to throw it all up and become a hippie or a freelance bohemian. They don't necessarily like the system or the constraints it places on them, but of all the signs of the Occidental zodiac, Cancers are the most capable of placing nose to dull old grindstone and keeping it there. The Cancer wants comfort for himself, but he also enjoys providing for his family in a generous way. Cancers are traditionalists. Where you might have hung a supremely abstract painting over your mantelpiece, the Cancer will have put portraits of his dour-looking grandparents, which he dug out of the attic because nobody else wanted them. They will surely be framed in antique frames and will hold the place or honor in Cancer's heart. Cancer prefers antiques to formica and longs for his son or daughter to become a doctor, a lawyer or a sure-fire accountant. If you have a Cancer for a friend, you know what loyalty and devotion mean. Cancer people usually make their friends young and keep them for life. And, as Cancers are fairly intransigent, they are easily hurt if the friends in question do not return their devotion. They will forgive. But Cancers never forget. If someone asked me to describe the worst aspect of Cancer subjects, I would not say "moods" or "grabbiness." Instead I would have to speak of the Cancer's tendency to hypersensitivity. Cancer is easily offended and susceptible to criticism the way six-year-olds are susceptible to chicken pox. A tiny word of criticism can bring on one of Cancer's legendary moods and the criticizer may go on the black list for quite a long time. Cancers are jealous too. They own the people they live with and are possessive to a fault about their loved ones. They are not, however, tyrannical about this weakness. The idea is not "I bought you and therefore I own you." No. It's more like "I love you so much and care so profoundly that I cannot believe you dared be attracted to that other (less serious) person." Cancer is also easily hurt by cutting remarks. In love, Cancer gives his all. It's impossible for him to understand someone who doles out their love in tiny eye-dropper doses.

Zodiac Position	4th	Quality	Cardinal
Ruling Planet		Element
	Moon		Water
Modern Birthstone (June)		Zodiac Symbol
	Pearl		The Crab

Maintaining a r/s

Try reading this....It's worth your time

“Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up.”
Ecclesiastes 4: 9-10

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.' There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is.' Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of 'PUB'.

NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?' The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.' We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU and requested 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU officer said, 'Your requirements, please.' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.'

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case.

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.' It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, 'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.'

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.' The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a nar row bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

'Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One' ' Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away '

a best day turn worst

It was a great day... bt it ended terribly... :'(

anyway... 2day onli haf 1 hr of tut... which is organic tut... quite a lot didn't turn up...

haf lunch wid jade n pey lih @ koufu... it's soooo empty... haha...

b4 gng to koufu... happen to c a poster which e sudoku pic... n it caught my attention immediately... haha...

can't decide whether to join or not... bt did in e end... wid pey lih accompanyin me...

since sudoku dun start until 12nn... we play in e other game... take it or leave it... a.k.a deal or no deal...

basically... for tt game... dere's 20 boxes, which 1 of dem is empty... e rest contain either sakae, ntuc or pastamania $10 voucher... i gt e sakae 1 :) pl gt e ntuc de...

e 1 hu gt tt empty box... get to play e 2nd round... n win cash... i onli watch e 1st game... in which e person won $120!!!

den join sudoku... n won $20 ntuc voucher n $$10 coffee bean voucher :)


went home 1st b4 gng to sch for german... learn e days of week as well as season n month... den off to work aft tt...

pretty slack... other den dng item listing (AGAIN!!) suppose to haf stock come in... bt didn't... n guess wad... it came @ 9+... bleah... jus we haf to close e store... wth...

bobian... must clear e stock 1st... end up close e store @ 10.30!! 1 hr aft e usual closin time lor... haix... knocked off @ 11+ :(

won't b feelin tt bad if not for dad callin up to "scold" me for still workin @ such a late time... haix... of all day i went to work... y do i haf to work late wen i didn't bring my keys... arr~

gonna gif e ntuc voucher to mum... den coffee bean n sakae keep for own use... hehe...

The List...

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.

Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.

It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.

That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. 'Really?' she heard whispered. 'I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!' and, 'I didn't know others liked me so much,' were most of the comments.

No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.



Several years later, one of the students was killed in Viet Nam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.

The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.

As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her. 'Were you Mark's math teacher?' he asked. She nodded: 'yes.' Then he said: 'Mark talked about you a lot.'


After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher.

'We want to show you something,' his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket 'They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it.'

Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times. The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him.


'Thank you so much for doing that,' Mark's mother said. 'As you can see, Mark treasured it.'

All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around. Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, 'I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home.'

Chuck's wife said, 'Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album.'

'I have mine too,' Marilyn said. 'It's in my diary'

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. 'I carry this with me at all times,' Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: 'I think we all saved our lists'



That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.



The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be.



So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late.

And One Way To Accomplish This Is: Forward this message on. If you do not send it, you will have, once again passed up the wonderful opportunity to do something nice and beautiful.

If you've received this, it is because someone cares for you and it means there is probably at least someone for whom you care.

If you're 'too busy' to take those few minutes right now to forward this message on, would this be the VERY first time you didn't do that little thing that would make a difference in your relationships?

The more people that you send this to, the better you'll be at reaching out to those you care about.



Remember, you reap what you sow. What you put into the lives of others comes back into your own.

May Your Day Be Blessed As Special As You Are

Video: Paper Trick

Awesome Paper Trick - Amazing videos are here

Chalet

Wen chalet aft gng to escape...

ard 6+ start bbq... i guess... i end up onli bbq marshmallow :p

me n my sis bbq marshmallow...my marshmallow

my sis n her marshmallow...

My baby cousin... cute isn't him?!

My relative enjoyin deir food...

while my cousin busy playin wid fire cracker~ n i busy wid photo takin

my uncle wid... erm... satay?

n more bbq~

sean n sheryl

yummy wings~ dere's lot of it de...
b4 i can whip out my camera to take... dey take away e wing T.T

n more pic of my relatives~
noelle...
wen i ask her wad she eatin... she shrug o.O

aunt n dad

e best part!! can u tell wad it is?

r u sure u noe wad's tt? :P


let's welcome e birthday girl~ 3yi po... ak.ka 3rd grand-aunt...

hav u able to guess it?



it's a cake!! my grandaunt still dun believe it... even wen she cut it... haha... she dun dare to cut e "basket" which is oso e cake... she thot onli e bao is edible... den she ask: "enuff to eat meh?"

aft e cake cuttin ceremony... we went to watch "Dear, Dear Son-in-law" @ 9pm...

went home @ ard 11... can't w8 to haf a cls chalet... or e chalet wid bestie~

Escape theme park

Holiday~

pop over to Escape theme park b4 gng to ah kim ah yi's chalet...

2 mighty trees guardin e place :p

somehow... wy tink tt she shld help dem to dig e nose -.-


e 1st tt i play was tt lay on e belly tt ride... den wen to queue for go-kart :) bleah... more den 1/2 queue... *faint* went into haunted hse twice... 1st wid my parents n bro... 2nd time wid my dad, sis n cousin...

still rmb e 1st time i went into haunted hse was last yr mfgg farewell... anyway... wen i went in wid my dad, sis n cousin... me n cousin laugh all e way frm e time 1 of e staff inside scare us til we went out of e hse... cuz my sis scream super loud!! :p den tt staff... keep followin us n growl while walkin bhind us... everytime he growl i jus burst out laughin...

anyway... i jus can't seem to stop myself frm playin e racin game @ least once... hehe... so badly wanna win tt lil pony plushie!

wy n des on e lay-on-ur-belly ride... n tt's e haunted hse u c in e backgrd...

while dey r on tt ride... mon n xz @ e bumper boat...

xz

mom
*c i so nice help her take photo... yet she spray water on me... tsk tsk*

as e weather bcome hotter n hotter... des, wy n me went onto e farrier wheel... gd choice as dere's @ least a lil wind @ e top :p

while we're stuck on top @ e farrier wheel... mom n xz ended deir bumper boat ride... caught a pic of dem:)

den wen over to take a ride on e roller coaster... n i haf to look @ e sian look on des n xz face -.-"

more racing b4 we left e place...
wy, mom n des...

n oso some camwhorin while queuing for rides...

mayb gng to escape soon wid bestie... now havin bday treat... jus $7 per entry...

Doraemon movie

Doraemon movie out on 15th Nov @ AMK hub~

i'm so gng to catch it :)



actually i noe e whole story liao... cuz i haf tt comic bk, which e movie is made... hehe...

I'm on Magazine~

received an email frm 2yi...

I'M ON THE MAGAZINE~

it's e pic taken wen we went to SDC for ratouille... n oso visit Singapore Toon...

anyway...it's on tis month's NüYou magazine~

Teenage bash

all i wan is to haf wednesday here...


a day wid bestie... a day to enjoy... a day to b a diff me...

Project 1 ppt

tml project 1 ppt...

jus hopin tt i won't start to haf coughin fits in e middle of e presentation...

all e best to all :)

GG

been browsing tru MFGG web... sad to c tt it's become a ghost site... even though it jus 2yrs :(

a site set up by my clique (da, put, edith, qing n me)... as a farewell gift to e seniors... a link between us n e alumni... a portal for us to share our guiding experience... a place for us to promote MFGG...

i guess... girl guide will alway b a part of my life... Once a guide, Forever a guide... or like wad put haf said... u can take a girl out of guide... bt u can nvr take tt guide out of a girl... 4yrs in guides... it's something tt can't b forgotten jus in a few months... those time since we join guides... those hardship we experience... those fun we haf... those friens we made... those campfire(cf) we attend... those camps that we haf gone tru... how our frienship haf formed as well as break in gg... how guides haf strengthen n weaken... how we stick tgt to overcome obstacle... every lil things tt happen in guide affect every1 of us...

i noe tt not every1 of us was enthu in joining guides... bt somehow... in e end... we all strive to build guides... to make it stronger...

reading tru all e comments... tinkin back to those times... it hurt a lil to noe how gg turnin out now :(

how we haf decided to promote more of mfgg... to set up tt web... tryin to spread e word abt e web tt we set up... cheerin forr e fact tt we're e 1st cca web to b up in e sch website... bt now... onli to c it turnin into a "ghost town" now... i tink... onli me n put haf check it up regularly...

some of e comments really make me wonder n tink quite a lot...

euni: great job!~
reminds mi so much of my guiding days...
itz over now though, but not fer u guys
jia you wor!~

atikah =): BOO ya!!
yeah..very very nice website.i really appreciate it..
hope this year committee will work together as one!
yeahh!!campfire coming lerr...
atikah is gettig the head cracking.

Ex Senior: Hi there girls, great to see a website dedicated to MF guides. Keep up the good work. Ex ACL Senior Year 1998.


ex senior: glad to c a new revamped mf guides website,mf guides have gone thru lots of ups n downs..continue the guiding spirit to my fellow juniors.mf guides rox.well done ppl.continue to try n aim for pna gold k?


Yan Qing: hey gals...since the start of this website, i have not been able to thanks the 'organizing' committee (haha)...anyway, this is really a great job done, and hopefully a brand new beginning for the next batch of Guides...After all, this is the first website to be included in the school website...haha...hmm...thanks to those seniors who visited our website as well as given the encouraging words...i sincerely hope that this marks a great beginning for us...a mini project well done by the Guides indeed!! Hope that we can look in here and remember the hard times we went through...and strive with the encouragement that many given us...three cheers to everyone and to the everlasting Guiding life!!!


A Grateful Junior: Thank You so much seniors...
Thanx for organising the camp so well!
THANX FOR....
~ teaching us so much through the games.
~ punishing us for the mistakes we made.
~ and telling us off when we are at the wrong.
~ it really did help me ( not sure about the rest )
~ but I hope its the same for dem

Anyway, I am just so grateful to all of you. Actually, wad really touched me the most is that both Putri ma'am and Wei Yi ma'am helping us to light up our solid fuel during the outdoor cooking despite hurting their fingers many times.

And also on the last day when my group was short of bread for breakfast and we were hungry. I asked for bread from Hui Xian ma'am and she told me to take the rest although i saw the the rest of the seniors have not eaten. I felt quite bad about it but I am really so touched and I hoped that it was u all who didn't wan to eat and not sacrifice and let us have the bread instead.

I am not only thankful to them but to the all of you seniors including Andreas ma'am.


vivien tay: oh oh oh!!!! b4 i 4get, GUIDES, LET US WORK HARD FOR OUR FUTURE!!!! all my fellow frens particiapting in SYF n NDP, jia you worx, wo yong yuan zhi chi ni!!! n sec 4 seniors, gd luk tu ur o lvls!! ^^


ex senior: to fellow sec4s committee members, it's nice to c u guys putting in so much effort for the guides camp...tat makes everyone benefit in a way or another...very soon, u guys will pass out le...may the next batch of juniors continue work hard k? mf guides had been thru alot... to andreas, ur help is truly n always appreciated in the unit...haha...thanks for so committedd to mf guides... to fellow juniors, conitnue to work hard n aim for the best... 3 cheers to mf guides...

wei yi: its me AGAIn. ahhas. wahh.. so many pple posted. im beginning to love guides again. ahh. din realli lyk it last yr. haha. well. guides SIMPLY RAWKS man. i love everybody. haha. JUNIORS rawk. SENIORS rawk. CAMP was great. glad to hear dat da junior enjoyed it. yan qing was da best afterall. a BIG thank you for organizing such a wonderful camp. leaving me with great memories. well. love u pple lots!!!


Darren Tay: A nice lovely site you ladies have there. Cheers to you and hope you girls maintain the good work. - Scout Leader Mayflower Scouts.


vivien tay: sec 4 seniors step down le. dun worry bout us, cos i noe these year de committee will work as hard, n we promise tu achieve even better results n make all of u proud! GUIDES rawks! Oh ya, mf guides annual campfire's coming again!!! (although we din haf it last year. -_-lll) seriously, jolene's working real hard. i can see tat. Da jie, jia you worx! lols. n of cos tu all new comittee! XD ooh, n i wanna thank all those hu visited n commented tis site, especially those hu weren't guides. ^^


nadzirah aka ezzy: wow!
this webpage is simply,
MAGNIFICENT!
its great.
rocks on sister giude!

missing guides badly... isabelle!! peck hui!! let me noe wen's meetin resumin~~~

Stage Art performance

jus came home frm sch...

went to Stage Art: Drama Night 2007...


4 shows... 1 club.. 1 nite... 1 stage...

great performances... all for story revolve ard e theme love... be it kinship, friendship or boy-girl relationship...


sry to Shipei for not turnin up @ hers... :(

anyway... congrats to both Amin n Shipei...

Work

been considerin of dng tt for days oredi...


2day irritatin ppl make me wanted to do tt more :(


bt den... shld i do it? hmmm... i wanna prove him wrong tt ppl doesn't stay long...



btw... all e best to u, Da... for ur interview :)